Hey, girl. It's Thalia!

This blog is designed to help you slow down, reconnect, and make space for the things that truly matter to you. Before you get stuck in, let me share more about my journey. Because the truth is, I’ve been where you are now: burnt out, second-guessing everything, and craving more from life. So, if you’ve ever wondered how you ended up here or why I care so much about helping girlies like you beat burnout, it all starts here…

  • I’d describe myself as:

    Slightly quirky, super supportive, a great listener, and anti-hustle. Slow, joyful living is my vibe

  • Favourite self-care rituals:

    Travelling, reading fiction, swimming in the sea, yoga, doing jigsaw puzzles, watching sunsets (and sunrises if I’m up, which is not very often)

  • Most defining moment:

    Quitting my toxic job in 2017 to solo travel around SE Asia. Although it didn’t heal my burnout, it was the greatest adventure of my life, and I learnt so much about myself

  • I feel most alive when:

    Walking in nature, hiking, or climbing mountains! Fun fact: I made it to Everest Base Camp (5,364m) in 2018

  • You’ll find me:

    Eating (most probably), snorkelling, exploring new places, or at my laptop living up to that digital nomad lifestyle

  • Random quirk:

    I sneeze every time I eat dark chocolate

Lifestyle photo showing the author of Notes by Thalia, Thalia smiling at the camera during sunset in front of the Sydney opera house
Lifestyle photo showing author of Notes by Thalia, Thalia posing on the peak of a mountain in the Himalayas
Lifestyle photo showing author of Notes by Thalia, Thalia posing in front of the sea just after snorkelling in Thailand
The real luxury in life isn’t making enough money to spend on a big house, fancy car, or glam clothes. It’s building a life you don’t need to regularly escape from.

My Journey

Here's how I made it happen

  1. The wake-up call I needed

    26-year-old me, stuck in a toxic fashion career, takes a much-needed trip to Dubai. My BFF is living her best life—beach after work, brunches, cocktails. Meanwhile, I’m drowning in stress and cheap wine back in London. This trip was the moment I knew I needed OUT

  2. The big escape

    7 months later, I quit my job with zero backup plan. Just a one-way ticket to Sri Lanka and a desperate need to feel joy again. I spent the next few months backpacking across Southeast Asia, falling in love with solo travel, and realising I could never go back to a 9-to-5

  3. My work-from-anywhere era

    I wasn’t ready to return to office life, so I took a TEFL job in Peru. Teaching wasn’t my dream, but it gave me the freedom to travel while earning money. Bucket list moment unlocked: hiking to Machu Picchu on Christmas Day

  4. Notes by Thalia was born

    After flip-flopping between random remote jobs, I launched Notes by Thalia — a self-care blog for girlies deep in burnout. Fast forward to now: 100K monthly readers and a community of women ready for actual solutions, not just feel-good quotes

  5. Officially left the UK

    London was no longer doing it for me. The weather, the energy, the vibe — I wasn’t feeling any of it. And let’s be real, environment is everything when it comes to building a life you don’t need to escape from. So, I packed my bags, moved to Greece, and swapped grey skies for daily sunsets and a sea breeze

  6. Studied health coaching

    I took my skills to the next level, diving deep into mindset, self-discovery, wellness, and coaching. My mission? To help women get real, long-lasting results, make bold moves, and create a life they love

    Became a certified coach: July 2023

  7. Laptop lifestyle unlocked

    Packed my bags (yet again) and officially became a digital nomad, splitting my time between Thailand, Vietnam, Bali and Greece. Pinch me moment: building my dream lifestyle while growing this online biz

  8. The final pivot

    After working with different coaching clients, it finally clicked — I’m here to help women in their 30s beat burnout and get their spark back. This is my soul work. Because you shouldn’t have to choose between an ambitious career and your well-being. You can have both.

Now it's your turn

Let’s create a life that’s aligned, magnetic, and unapologetically yours.

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My Secret

The Anti-Burnout Framework™

This is the exact method that helped me move away from a toxic career in fashion, beat burnout, and build a life that deeply lights me up. Now, I’m sharing it with you.

Here’s how it works:

Alignment: When your values, work, lifestyle, and tribe all vibe with each other, you become magnetic. Life feels lighter. You stop forcing yourself into a box that doesn’t fit and start attracting opportunities that feel effortless.

Mindset: When you learn to question the beliefs you’ve been telling yourself about success, worth, and failure, you stop living on autopilot and start making empowered choices from a place of self-trust, not doubt.

Self-care: This is what holds it all together. It’s not a reward for working hard. It’s the foundation that keeps you grounded, energised, and able to show up fully for your career and yourself.

This framework is the backbone of everything I do – every blog post, every coaching session, every resource I create.

It’s designed to get you unstuck, in flow, and thriving in every area of your life (including your job).

And once you start living by it, things change fast. 

The Anti-Burnout Framework by Notes by Thalia shows a 3-part venn diagram highlighting the importance of Alignment, Self-Care and Mindset in a the pursuit of recovering from, and ditching burnout for good.

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